Implications for China’s Growing Group of Single Men

Posted: May 10th, 2011 | Author: | Filed under: Kev's Thoughts On... | Tags: , , , , , , , , | 5 Comments »

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In the Nov/Dec 2010 Issue of Foreign Affairs Magazine, there is a fantastic article entitled “The Demographic Future” by Nicholas Eberstadt, where he introduces what the world of 2030 will look like from a demographic standpoint. As he explains:

“It is already possible to draw a reasonably reliable profile of the world’s population in 2030. This is, of course, because the overwhelming majority of those who will inhabit the world 20 years from now are already alive. As a result, one can make some fairly confident estimates of important demographic trends, including manpower availability, the growth in the number of senior citizens, and the resulting support burden on workers.”

Mr. Eberstadt spends a portion of his essay on China’s future situation, and he paints an outlook most people familiar with China’s demographic trends have known for some time: a doubling of the number of senior citizens, a shrinking of the younger working class, and rudimentary social welfare and pension systems that incapable of coping with the massive imbalance.

This coming reality is shared by the US and all developed nations, except China’s is pushed to the extremes because of its much larger population, much poorer per capita income, much lower education levels, and a more ill-equipped pension system.

Yet, for all these colossal national challenges, Eberstadt’s essay adds one more demographic trend unique to China that will have significant social and cultural implications:

“…China will face a growing number of young men who will never marry due to the country’s one-child policy, which has resulted in a reported birth ratio of almost 120 boys for every 100 girls…By 2030, projections suggest that more than 25% of Chinese men in their late 30s will never have married. The coming marriage squeeze will likely be even more acute in the Chinese countryside, since the poor, uneducated, and rural population will be more likely to lose out in the competition for brides.”

Can you even begin to comprehend living in a society where 1 in every 4 adult men you meet will have never married, and not by choice? How could this change the social and cultural dynamics of China?

Here are some ideas to get you pondering:

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Men Marrying Younger Women

If a man cannot find a woman to marry in his peer group, perhaps he will find greater opportunity to marry a girl of a younger generation. By then, perhaps this man will have saved a little more money and may be desirable enough for a younger woman (and that young woman’s family) to consider. In fact, this is already a part of China’s reality today. It is quite common to meet Chinese couples where the man is 10, 20 or 30 years older than his wife. Chinese men are already putting off marriage until they can properly afford to provide for a wife and family. Chinese pragmatism and a continued income-imbalance based on gender play roles here. Perhaps the demographics of 2030 will show this trend to strengthen and become even more commonplace in the population instead of shrinking.

Sexuality in Question

There is great support on both sides of the argument as to whether Homosexuality is a genetic or social outcome. However, if you are persuaded that Homosexuality is in part influenced by social factors, then it is worthwhile to explore what impact such a large population of unmarried men might have on the issue of sexual orientation. There is already a thriving LGBT community and subculture in China, but as ‘coming out’ continues to find acceptance and support in the younger generations, will this significant gender imbalance have any effect on the perspective of the LGBT community in the China’s future mainstream consciousness?

Anger and Frustration

The prospect of never finding a life partner can be one of the greatest fears in a person’s life. In a culture like China’s, where the mainstream societal expectation continues to put heavy emphasis on progeny, family network strength, and family unit establishment as a benefit to status-building, for these one in four adult Chinese males, being single adds extra dimensions of undesirability. Deep personal anger and frustrations must inevitably be a byproduct of these societal pressures.

If these single men will be found predominantly in a single demographic – namely rural, poor and uneducated men – what we might see is the emergence of a distinct sub-group of people, or a new class segregation. An entire class of potentially angry, frustrated, relatively poor and uneducated single men can mean serious threats to societal stability, if this group builds a class identity that feels antagonized by society as a whole.  China’s history is full of examples when a group lashes out in defiance and/or violence. This potential new class of single, frustrated men will number in the tens of millions in 2030.

Resilience of Chinese Endurance

There are also a number of examples in history of the Chinese (and other Asian cultures) enduring harsh, distressed, unfair circumstances for generations. It speaks to the resilience and strength of Chinese culture in helping the particular afflicted group align its interests with the general collective society, enabling them to live out their lives enduring the pains of their life situation.

Perhaps this group of single men will not affect anything socially or culturally, but instead stay silent and endure their circumstance as other groups of Chinese have done in the past. For this to happen though will depend on the state and strength of China’s collective culture in the coming 20 years.

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The Chinese government has been aware of these demographic trends for some time now. They have known, likely before the rest of the world did, that China’s fertility rate fell below the minimum population-replacement fertility rate (2.1 children per family) more than two decades ago.  So why hasn’t the government done anything if it can see the problems that may lie waiting ahead?

The more immediate challenges China faces must be addressed first. Enacting and maintaining the one-child policy alleviated growing pressures on agriculture and natural resources to give China a chance to shift industries and redirect capital into transforming China into an industrial nation and then a privatized economy. Without first accomplishing the short-term goals, China will never be in a position with the right resources to solve any longer-term issues.

Second, having a unified, single-minded governing body and a mass society that generally trusts and believes in the decisions of its government have its unique advantages. One of those advantages is the ability to enact sweeping and often extreme changes very quickly.  The Chinese government thirty years ago asked a nation to limit child bearing to one per family. It is not inconceivable that the same government can ask this same nation thirty years later to double its children – for the betterment of the society.

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While the official government rhetoric until now has been no changes in the One Child Policy, we are starting to see experimentation in a few selected demographics, and the creation of small policy loop-holes that are allowing more Chinese families to legally have more than one child. A good friend of mine who was a former UN officer working on the issue of China’s birth and fertility concurs with the expectation that China will sooner rather than later reverse its stance on the one-child policy and push some new form of incentive to drive birthrates up.

The question is whether the incentives will be enough. One of the biggest concerns facing Chinese families today is how to afford raising one child, let alone two. As one recent article from Reuters explains, some couples who have the opportunity to have a second child still choose only to have one as the costs of living and education are so substantial.  In our own research work at China Youthology, we observe an increasing number of young post 80’s and 90’s kids who say they have no desire to have any children at all. They simply are not interested in a life with parenting responsibilities.

This could all mean for the Chinese government, that something a bit stronger than incentives may be needed in order for fertility rates to rise again. If there is any country that has the political audacity and executional strength to do something so drastic, it is China.

However, for this coming generation of frustrated, single men, any policy changes now are too little too late. This emerging reality is almost here. The only thing we can do now is develop a richer and stronger Chinese culture so they can find some relief from any feelings of alienation or frustration. New initiatives that will help cohesion of family, community, and collective social units will be integral in enabling those unable to find a life-partner to cope and have other life-meanings to pursue.

If You Are The One China TV ShowIf You Are The One TV Show
Hunan TV””s “If You Are The One”, a massively popular TV show where one man tries to persuade a panel of 24 eligible single girls that he is husband-material.

One Child Policy generation comes of age for better or worse.

Posted: April 13th, 2009 | Author: | Filed under: Kev's Thoughts On... | Tags: , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment »

Apologies to everyone for the long stretch between this post and my last; it is crunch time at work, and recently I’ve been doing more reading than writing.

As a blogger who cannot help but analyze the world through demographic and sociological trends, I have (as I am sure many of you have also) been saying for a long time that it is critical for us to understand the One Child Policy generation if we are to better foresee the direction China will develop.

For fairly comprehensive information on the One Child Policy, click here.11chinachina_one_child

Controlling population growth. Done. But this is where the One Child Policy experiment really gets interesting.

For me, the One-Child Policy generation is intriguing and alarming as it is a grand socialogical experiment, happening just at the time when the world’s next great economic power is relying on this generation to power their next stage of growth.  This stage of growth depends on China’s rising companies and budding industries, and these organizations are in-turn reliant on the cooperation of the people who make the whole thing move.

Now think of your childhood classroom, where kids interact with one another and their teacher.  The dynamics of the interactions you remember as a kid are greatly influenced by the fact that you, or some of your childhood classmates, were older or younger  brothers and sisters of other kids.  This means by the time you first met them in the classroom, they already had 5 or 6 years interacting with another person their age, and also sharing the love & affection of their parents with another.  That makes a big difference in work-group dynamics, both in the classroom and later at work.  Patience, Sharing, Communication Skills, Passive/Assertive balance, are all influenced by whether a family has one or more children.

china_health_obesityNow flip back to the China experience, and if you can imagine it, a whole classroom of single children.  Can you deduce that the interactions & cooperation between One-Child Policy children would be different?

We all know about the “Four-Two-One” problem within Chinese families, and the term “Little Emperors”, while over-used the past couple years, still rings true to the contemporary Chinese experience.

We have to remember though, that the One Child Policy came into effect in 1979, meaning that the first children of the One-Child Policy generation are not really children anymore; they turn 30 this year.  The One-Child Policy generation has stealthily grown up and become adults while we weren’t looking, and the first waves are now in and among us in the workplace.

Hitting the workforce & changing organizational behaviour

If I had been born and raised in China, I would be among this first group of ‘One-Childers’ (I’ll call them that for brevity).  Having lived in China for a number of years, I have watched as this group of my peers graduated from university, found their first jobs, and gradually made headway in their careers with the few years of experience they have since gained.

This first group of One-Childers (those born between 1979-1985) have actually been fairly successful in adjusting to worklife and work-life balance.  They have been able to integrate well into pre-existing company structures and have proven to be able to take responsibities.  Many, watching the generation before them (like Jack Ma (1964) of Alibaba, Charles Zhang (1964) of Sohu, and Pan Shiyi (1963) of SOHO China) even caught the hungry and drive to be successful.

But this first group of One-Childers is a little misleading, and is not a good indicator of things to come with the rest of the One-Child Policy generation.  Here’s why:

1) A number of the first group of One-Childers are actually younger siblings and not really single children.  As the roll-out of the One-Child Policy varied depending on the region of China, families who had their first child before 1979, may have had a chance to have a second child after 1979 without being penalized.

2) The Open-Door Policy having just been instilled in 1978, the first group of One-Childers came from families just emerging from the cultural revolution.  Thus, the early half of their lives are generally characterized by humble beginnings.  Accelerated wealth creation for Chinese individuals and families only began to take off into the mid 80′s as Export industries, Real Estate, and Raw Materials started benefiting private owners.  Therefore, the entire “Little Emperor” experience — getting whatever the child materially wanted — is not present for this first group of One-Childers.



Its now 2009, and those born after 1986 are starting to enter the workforce.  This group is fully set in the single-child environment, and the term “Little Emperors” was really invented to describe the generation starting with this group.

Now that my generational group has gained enough experience and are in managerial positions hiring entry-level staff, my peers and I often share stories about the characteristics and quality of this group of new hires.  There are several rising themes often attributed to this new group of One-Childers: 1) they have serious problems with authority figures 2) they have a general disillusionment with responsibility & reality 3) they lack passion/drive to stand out 4) they have problems with group collaboration/communication 5) they are incapable of identifying fault/areas for improvement within themselves.

These five characteristics are broad generalizations that may not apply to each individual, but for those who have experience working with or managing One-Childers born after 1986, I would guess that a large majority of these themes are apparent.  And these five characteristics are direct products of the Little Emperor syndrome.

The major issue is, how do you deal with such characteristics? This group is just the head of a long generation of One-Childers with the same qualities, perhaps even exacerbated.  There is little to mitigate from this situation.  Pretty soon a large portion of all China’s companies will be staffed by this generation.  In a few years, this group will move into managerial positions and begin reformatting team structures and work-flow based on their own preferences, likely influenced in part by these five themes.  The question is, how will China’s emergent work-dynamic look like? Will this transformation in China’s organizational behaviour be efficient? effective? offer competitive advantages or blunt China’s edge?

Marriage rates

68_chinese-weddingA brief, brief word about marriages in China.  If there was an industry to invest in right now, it would be the ancillary businesses related to weddings.  The “Four-Two-One” factor magnifies the significance and value potential of this still-growing industry.  As the first group of One-Childers enter their late twenties, marriage season has begun, or should I say, the marriage competition has begun.

Three entire generations of two families now arrive at the apex of their chance to show off their new-found wealth and success.  Forget the big screen TV, the new apartment, or luxury sedan.  The Wedding of two One-Childers will make those shows of wealth look like chum-change.  (Actually, the wedding will probably include all those things just mentioned).  And one relative’s only-child wedding will be compared to another relative’s.  One former classmate to another’s.  One work colleague to another’s.  And lets not forget what a Little Emperor wants, he/she gets. Its a vicious cycle, but I guess a good one for those in the business of weddings.  Its 2009.  There is at least 30 more years of One-Child Policy weddings. Damn.


Back to China’s One-Child workforce.  What’s the Upside?

Is there a saving grace? I hope so.  The only one I can think of so far is technology and new media.  They are the X-factors in this whole equation.  Perhaps the characteristics we currently see as major faults in the One-Childers can become advantages in new utilization of technology & media.  Can the One-Childer’s teach us a thing or two about using technology for collaboration? Remember, this is the first real generation of Chinese that grew up with PCs, the internet, the mobile phone, first in an entertainment context before they became work tools.

So maybe we’re on the brink of a Chinese-style collaborative revolution instead of implosion.

Here’s a Video Resume a new Chinese graduate just uploaded onto the web.  He’s trying to enter the workforce for the first time, and he’s using the tools he has around him; namely technology and media:

Pretty cool huh? Maybe this is the beginning of something.  I’ll leave you with that.  I’d love to hear your comments on this subject.  Its definitely a work in progress.